You’re told to mourn the Beis HaMikdash, but you’ve never seen it. So what are you actually supposed to feel during the Nine Days and on Tisha B’Av, and how do you get there without faking it? We sit down with Rabbi Don Jarashow to chase an honest answer: mourning isn’t a mood you either have or don’t have; it’s sensitivity you can practice.
We talk about why the classic Nine Days customs (less music, fewer pleasures, pulling back from comfort) aren’t meant to make you miserable. They’re meant to create space. When you limit what usually fills your attention, you finally have room to notice what exile means, what it means to say the Shechinah is in pain, and what it means to want redemption and geulah in a real way. Don shares a vivid story that reframes grief across time and makes the question of “mourning what you never had” land in the gut.
From there we get practical and personal: what “awaiting redemption” can look like when every person has a different mission and a different struggle. We touch on Avas Yisrael, on choosing an avodah that’s actually yours, and on how to end the Nine Days without spiraling into second-guessing. The goal is effort, alignment, and honesty, then knowing when to move forward into comfort and Nachamu.
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