The Motivation Congregation - With Michoel Brooke

You’re told to mourn the Beis HaMikdash, but you’ve never seen it. So what are you actually supposed to feel during the Nine Days and on Tisha B’Av, and how do you get there without faking it? We sit down with Rabbi Don Jarashow to chase an honest answer: mourning isn’t a mood you either have or don’t have; it’s sensitivity you can practice. We talk about why the classic Nine Days customs (less music, fewer pleasures, pulling back from comfort) aren’t meant to make you miserable. They’re meant

You can do the right actions all day and still end the day wondering why nothing moved. That’s where coachability becomes more than a buzzword. We get personal about what it actually means to be coachable, how to ask for feedback without getting defensive, and why your “listening filter” can quietly distort even the best advice. If you’ve ever felt stubborn, bruised, or misunderstood after someone tried to help, you’ll recognize yourself here. We also break down why different coaching styles wo

If you have ever felt like you are doing everything “right” and still feel untethered, this one is for you. We start with Parsha Matos Masei and the weight of the Three Weeks, then pivot to a modern pressure point: the moment you leave the yeshiva world and step into work, contracts, deadlines, and environments you did not choose. That transition can be bumpy, and it can quietly drain your Torah learning, your davening, and your joy if you try to muscle through it alone. We share the advice I g