June 1, 2025

Celebrating Shavuos: A Guide to Authentic Happiness Without Overthinking

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Ready for a refreshing take on Shavuos celebration? Forget the overwhelming details and embrace a simpler approach to this profound holiday.

The cornerstone of a meaningful Shavuos lies in embracing Simchas Yontif—holiday joy—as a biblical commandment according to the Shagas Aryeh. This means practical, tangible actions: giving your spouse the credit card for new clothes, buying children their favorite candies and toys, and preparing delicious meals featuring quality meats. Whether you choose a modest $20 bottle of Cordova or splurge on a $50 Shiloh Cabernet Secret Reserve, the goal is straightforward happiness, not perfection.

Preparation transforms the Shavuos experience. Men should visit the mikvah, get haircuts, and ensure the home is ready. Women play a crucial role in creating a joyful atmosphere where everyone feels prepared for the holiday. Since we no longer have the Temple, approach your synagogue with reverence and genuine enthusiasm, particularly during the Shema, internalizing that Torah gives our lives meaning and purpose. The night of learning should be approached with authenticity—study the Mishneh Brura, explore the Gemara, take that 3 AM cholent break, then return with renewed focus to understand what God truly wants from you.

What makes Shavuos extraordinary is how it elevates us from ordinary existence. The second day offers a unique opportunity to disconnect from distractions and reconnect with what truly matters. Without this holiday, "we would just all be Joe Schmoes," but Shavuos makes us special, providing the spiritual energy needed to renew our commitment to "Na'aseh v'Nishma" as we enter summer. Experience the joy of simplicity this Shavuos and discover how authentic celebration can transform your connection to tradition, family, and faith. How will you embrace the essence of Shavuos this year?

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00:00 - Don't Overthink Shavuos

00:57 - Preparing for Simchas Yom

01:47 - Learning on Shavuos Night

03:15 - The Second Day's Special Significance

04:16 - Renewing Commitment After Shavuos

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If you want to have a great Shavuos, it starts out by not overthinking it.

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Simchas Yontif is a da'araisah, a biblically ordained commandment as per the Shagas Aryeh, and you follow Shulchan Aruch, which means to make everyone happy.

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On Yontif, give your wife your credit card and let her buy some shoes and some clothing.

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You should listen to your children and not overthink it, and you should also follow Shulchan Aruch that your children want kleios ve'egozim, they want candy and toys.

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Pez Mike and Ike's, jolly Ranchers, action figures, dolls, k'nex Legos that's what they want.

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Men, women and children should know don't overthink it.

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Basavayayan ribs, steak, lamb, veal, chicken.

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And if you want to spend $20 on a bottle of wine, get the Cordova, it'll do just fine, or get if you have a bit of affluence or you would like something nice you're a fine schmecher then you should take a $50 Shiloh Cabernet Secret Reserve or a Yatir.

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It all works great.

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Don't overthink it.

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Prepare for Simchas Yom.

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On Erev Yontif, if you want to have a great Shavuos, a man should go to the mikvah, immerse himself, get a haircut, prepare yourself, clean the house, make sure everything is ready to go.

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Women should make sure that everyone's in a happy and good spirit.

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Everyone should be clean and ready for the yontif.

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It's a regal, it's a time that we would all walk up to the harabayis, but now we don't have it, so instead we walk to shul, and men should go to shul with a simcha.

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You should sit down as per the and you should put your hands over your eyes and say with enthusiasm on Friday night or on the night time of Shavuos, and you should have specific intentions before Shema where you say you should say those words with enthusiasm, with concentration.

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You should internalize the fact that Torah is life, it's leban.

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That's how we live, it's what we live for and it's what gives our lives meaning and purpose Torah.

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Remind yourself that on the night of Shavuos you should give the rabbi a good yontif.

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You should come home with a big smile and thank everyone for how they prepared for the yontif.

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You should enjoy yourself with the yontif suda and you should sing to the Bayre'olam.

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You should praise Hashem, praise those that prepared the suda of the yontif, engage your children in discussing the holiday of Shavuos and then have a big fat, two scoops of taster's choice inside of your coffee for dessert, so that you can walk to Shul and learn that night.

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Learn on the night of Shavuos with authenticity and honesty.

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Grab a Mishneh Brura and learn about the laws of Yontif.

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Grab any book from the oral law, any book of Gemara, and engage with the Rizch HaDaOraisah of trying to clarify what God wants from us.

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I can learn with your friends at two in the morning.

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Step outside to have a bowl of cholin at three in the morning.

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Come back inside and learn Rashi on the Ten Commandments with the most concentration and the most attention to detail that you've ever had.

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Learn, learn, because that's how you figure out what Hashem wants from you.

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Dive in in the morning.

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Go to the bathroom before you say your Asher Yotza or your Netilas Yodayim.

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Get someone to say Ber Chassah Torah for you.

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Don't say your Elohim Neshama.

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If you stayed up all night, check with your local Orthodox rabbi all of the laws, but dive in with an Akadomos and pay attention.

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If you need that, haftorah shluch maybe, do that, but try not to Continue to daven.

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Well, walk home, have some cheesecake, a big fat bracha on cheesecake.

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Enjoy it and recall why we're eating flesheks.

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Do it with simcha.

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Make the proper after bracha, because if you had a lot of crust or you had a lot of shahakol of your cheese, make sure you make the right bracha Day.

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Two things get even better, no-transcript that he tells us that the second day of Shavuos has a unique characteristic that it's a vadai.

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It's a for sure enactment by the sages because it's 50 days immediately after Pesach, so technically we know when it is.

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So why are we keeping a second day?

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But it's nothing other than that rabbis and an orally mandated law.

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They gave it to us and we want to keep Hashem's laws and we want every sage, whatever they say, is the will of God.

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We want to follow it.

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But you should take it and take the second day to rejoice with your family, to bring happiness, to bring peace, to unplug, to get back to what is real, to get back to what is important.

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Shavuos should be a time of cheesecake singing, rejoicing that if not for this day, we would just all be Joe Schmoes, we wouldn't be special, we'd be Joe Lunchbucket.

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But Shavuos makes us Yoysee, rav, yoysee, rav, yoyseif.

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It makes us elevated.

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So take advantage of it with honesty and authenticity and with pleasure.

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Let it give you purpose and let it inspire you to go forward after Shavuos into the summertime, renewing your commitment of Nasev'nishma and trying to follow Hashem's rules better and trying to talk to Him, because Hashem listens, and Shavuos should give you that new energy, that newfound energy that we all want in our ruchnias.

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And it's all there for the taking, if you prepare properly and go about all the halachos swimmingly when Shavuos comes.

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So very, very soon.