Jan. 1, 2026

Parshas Vayechi: Rule Yourself First

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Season 1

A crown should go to the strongest, the firstborn, or the loudest—unless the Torah is teaching a different law of power. We open Yaakov's closing blessings and follow the path that leads past Reuven, Shimeon, and Levi to Yehudah, the lion who can lie down. Not because he overwhelms others, but because he governs himself. That shift—from dominance to discipline—becomes the episode’s heartbeat.

We unpack Rashi’s luminous reading of “from the prey, my son, you rose,” showing how Judah earns kingship through two costly choices: defusing his brothers’ plot against Joseph and admitting fault to save Tamar. Then we step into the Kuzari’s court, where a king seeks truth and a rabbi explains that a chassid is a ruler first over his own senses. Justice, provision, and restraint begin inside. The Vilna Gaon ties the bow: moshel me’atzmo—one who rules himself—is fit to rule a city. When appetite bows to truth, authority becomes trustworthy, and power becomes service.

From there, we bring the lens to now. In an age of excess and endless options, self-mastery is not a slogan; it is survival. We talk about habits that anchor integrity, how to resist easy consensus when values are at stake, and why public credibility grows from private discipline. The lion’s calm isn’t sleep; it’s strength in order. If you’re leading a team, a classroom, a family, or just your own day, this conversation offers a clear, ancient blueprint for modern leadership that actually holds.

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00:00 - Jacob’s Blessings Reframe Leadership

03:00 - Why Reuben, Simeon, And Levi Lost Kingship

05:20 - Judah’s Lion And The Meaning Of “From The Prey”

09:00 - Rashi On Judah: Restraint And Admission

14:30 - The Kuzari’s Model Of A True Ruler

20:00 - Self-Governance As Fitness To Govern

23:30 - Vilna Gaon On Mastery And Malchut

27:00 - Modern Musar: Discipline In An Age Of Excess

31:00 - Practical Courage: Speaking Truth Against The Crowd

33:20 - Final Charge: Regain Choice And Boundaries

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When Yaakov gathers his sons at the end of his life, he's not only blessing them, he's defining leadership.

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He begins by telling Ruven, you are the firstborn.

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Shimon and Levy are powerful.

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Yet the scepter the kingdom does not go to them.

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Instead, it's given to Yehuda.

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Yehuda wears the crown and holds the scepter.

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Why?

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What is Jewish monarchy and leadership built upon?

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If not for right, and power.

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Why is it that it skipped Ruven, Shimon, and Levy, and fell into Yehuda's lap?

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To answer this question, we must know.

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And start by asking ourselves, what does make a great ruler?

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Is it power?

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Is it dominance?

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Is it a right to the throne or simple authority?

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No.

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No.

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And no.

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The Torah offers a radically different answer.

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True leadership.

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If you want to be the next great king or the next great Jewish leader, it does not begin by controlling others.

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It begins by controlling one's self.

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As we will soon see from Yaakov's blessings.

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Through Yehuda's self-mastery, and some touch-ups of philosophy by the Kuzuri that we're about to discuss, we will discover that the greatest Moshel, the greatest Jewish leader, is not a tyrant, but rather someone who has mastered himself and is nothing but a servant of truth.

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They gathered, they assembled, they hearken, O sons of Jacob.

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Hearken to Israel your father.

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Yaakov begins, you're my firstborn, my might, my first fruit of my vigor, exceeding in rank and exceeding in honor, but unstable as water, and you shall no longer excel.

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For when you mounted your father's bed, you brought disgrace.

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My couch he mounted.

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Shimon and Levi, you're a pair.

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Your weapons are tools of borrowed lawlessness.

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Let not my person be included in their council.

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Let not my person, continues Yaakov, be counted in Shimon and Levi's assembly.

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For when angry, this duo slay a man, and when pleased, they maimox.

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Cursed be their anger, it is so fierce, and their wrath so relentless, I will divide them in Yaqov.

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Then come to Yehuda.

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You can imagine that at this point, after the harsh rebuke that the sons have gotten up to this point, Yehuda's probably shying away, not wanting to endure the wrath of these blessings of Yaakovinu, these nuggets and droplets of truth.

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Then things take a little bit of a different turn.

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Yehuda continues Yaqov, Atto Yoidukha Achecha, your brothers shall praise you.

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Yodcha Ba Oyref Oyvecha, your hand shall be on the nape of your foes, wherever the nape is.

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Yeshtachavulacha beneavika, your father's sons shall bow low to you and wait for it.

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Here's the big kicker and the pussy we're going to unpack with the help of Ashem, Gur Ary Yehuda.

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Yehuda is a lion's whelp.

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Whatever that means.

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On prey, my son, have you grown?

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Have you risen?

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Kora Rovatska Arye Uhilovi Mi Yikimenu.

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Yehuda, you crouch and lie down like a lion, like a lioness, who dare rouse him?

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Yaakov continues, Lo Yasor shave it mehuda.

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Therefore, the scepter shall not depart from the tribe of Yehuda.

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Umichoike me Bane Raglov, nor the ruler's staff from between his feet.

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Adki Yovai Shiloh Velo Yikhos Amim, so that tribute shall come to him, and the homage of peoples be Yehuda's.

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It is Yehuda who is knighted, who is to be the monarch tribe of Jewish people until Asid Love O and even then perhaps he will still be ruling.

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The scepter will never leave his neighborhood.

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Why?

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Why did Yaakov not give it to the Reubenites or the Shimonites or the Levites?

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He tells us.

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Because Gur Aryehuda.

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Miteref Boni Elisa.

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You know what makes a good leader?

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You know who is deservant of the crown?

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Somebody that on prey, my son, you have grown.

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Now that's a terrible explanation because we don't know what that means.

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Thank God for Rashi.

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Zok Rashi.

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Listen here.

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What does it mean, Boni Olisa?

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My son, you have risen from the prey.

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Yehuda was the one from that murderous deed that he withdrew when the brothers were ganging up on Yosef to kill him?

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Yosef said in Perak Heat Prophet P-R-O-F-I-T, what profit, what gain is there if we slay our brother?

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Yuda was the one who spoke up and literally saved the lives of Yosef and the future Jews that would come from him.

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He said, Ma Betza.

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He rose up.

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He rose up from the prey.

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What does that mean, the prey in this context?

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Rashi's explaining.

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It was Yosef when he spoke out to save Yosef's life in the face of his brothers, who had paskined that Yosef was Chaiev Misa to get the death penalty.

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But Rashi's not done.

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Yosef continued to stand up for what was right.

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Correction?

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Yehuda continued to stand up for what was right when he acted the rigas tomar.

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Shehodah.

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By the murdering of Tamar.

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Remember?

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Ayy Kadesha Hiba Enaim, where is Tamar?

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She's now expectant of a child, even though she's out of wedlock.

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She was Chaiv Misa and she was being walked to death row.

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But all of a sudden, Yehuda, when he understood what happened, he admitted.

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He said, Sodkomeni, she is right.

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She is righteous.

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Mine is the blame, Yehuda said.

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It's me.

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I did what was wrong.

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Don't kill Tomar.

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There's a mistake here.

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Lefika.

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Rashi continues.

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Lefikach, therefore.

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Because of these two actions, where Yehuda stood up, he arose from the prey.

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Me Teref Beni Alisa.

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Oh my son on prey, you have grown, you have risen.

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Because of this, Lafika.

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Yaqov continues, Kara Rovatz, Ka Ariu Khalavi Mi Kimenu.

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He crouches, he lies down like a lion and like a lioness.

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It's a reference to Bime Shlomo.

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Ish Takas Gophno.

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We know that who will dare wake or rouse the lion that's referring to when Israel dwelt safely in every man under his vine, underneath the kingdom of Yehuda.

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The reward, the Lafikah is the kicker here.

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Rashi's learning the Pasik is an explanation of what actions led to the leadership.

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The rising up from the prey, and the speaking out when everyone else said that Yosef was to die.

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And the speaking out when it was a total admitting of guilt, a revelation, when it was nearly impossible to reveal that fact because of that total self-control is Yehuda's legacy, eternally that of being the ruler.

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What a powerful Yesoid.

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The monarch is the one, explains the Mashkias, is the one who governs himself and has total self-control in every single situation.

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No matter what's going on, no matter what others are saying.

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Yaakov says that the quality of being a ruler and acting on what you know is right no matter what others are doing, that's who wears the crown.

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The Birachum's not making this up.

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It's based on fact.

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It's based on the safer kuzari.

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The kuzari, you need to know this.

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You need to know this, friends.

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The safer kuzari.

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To explain to you what we're about to see this lesson clearly.

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The kuzari, the full title of the safer, is the book of refutation and the proof on behalf of the despised religion.

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The classic Musr and Hashkafa work of Jewish philosophy and theology that was written in the 12th century during the 1100s by the great Rabbi Huda Halevi, the most renowned Talmud Chacham, and Godl Hadoran, Jewish thinker of the generation.

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What is the Kuzari?

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Well, it's really a philosophical dialogue, a play, if you will, between the king of the Khazars, a real historical people, and a Jewish sage and some other philosophers, representatives of Christianity and Islam, all trying to duke out for the truth.

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And the king is sitting on his throne in this narrative of the kuzari that Sashkava says for it's really brilliant, how all of it is going on like a play.

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It has this Shakespearean feel, but I can't even say that because it's Kadosh Vitar.

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It's so brilliant, it's from a different realm, but it's like a play.

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And the king is searching for true religion, and he's questioning each one of the rabbi and the priest and the Muhammadan guy and the thinker.

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He hears all sides, and spoiler alert, Judaism wins.

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The Kuzari is important.

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The Chachma here, the information's important to know that the safer is Kathershvatar, and it's based on its main thesis, its main points.

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We have a chance here just to say it out.

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The Kuzari teaches us the national revelation that Judaism is based not about abstract philosophy and about one person saying that he saw something, but an entire nation, millions of people all saying that they experienced and witnessed the entire thing.

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An entire nation, not one individual, but everyone does the truth rest upon.

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Kuzari talks about how philosophy only goes, but so far.

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And how, no matter how much wisdom you amass, if you aren't infected by that brilliant Jewish inner heart, you don't have that inyan elika, you'll never get to that divine connection.

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It's based on the spiritual specialness that happened when we all were present at that moment at Kabala's Hatorah.

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That's what lit up our spark to enable prophecy.

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The Kuzari is very much based about Judaism and Torah is lived in practice.

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The Kuzeri is all about that belief and philosophy is not what's important.

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But what you do, the commandments, precision in halacha is what life's about.

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These are obviously some of the most critical points of Judaism.

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But tucked away, tucked away in essay number three, in chapter number three of the Kuzari, there's this wondrous back and forth that happens between the Al-Khazari, the Khazar, and the rabbi.

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Omar Hakuzari.

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We'll pick up in the middle here.

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Paragraph one was all about finding your happy place and what true Kedusha is.

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Paragraph two for the run-up is all about solitude and wanting to be alone with true pleasures in life, like holiness.

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And here we go with paragraph three.

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If so, this is what Kedusha is.

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Give a description of what goes on in the life of a pious man at the present time.

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So the rabbi, the friend, says, Oh, sheha, terpame, the chalsilfkin.

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A pious man is a guardian of his country.

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The rabbi continues to say, He's one the chassid who gives to his inhabitants provisions.

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He provides for all his constituents, all of the serfs, all of the common folks' needs.

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He is so just that he wrongs no one.

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He rules in a way that nor does he grant anyone more than each one of his citizens do.

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Then, when he requires his citizens' action, he finds them obedient to his call, his orders.

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They execute.

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And if he forbids, they abstain.

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The Kuzari parks back.

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I asked you, Rabbi, concerning a chassid.

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Lo Al Moshel?

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I asked you for what it's like to be living life as a chassid.

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Why are you telling me what life is like?

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As a ruler, as a prince.

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Omar Hachavir.

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The rabbi responds.

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The chassid is one who rules.

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A pious man is nothing but a prince who is obeyed by his senses.

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His mental as well as his physical faculties, which he governs his reality, as it's written, this is the chassid, because quote Umoshel Beruhau Milocaid ear.

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That he that ruleth his spirit, he who rules his life, his temptations is better than one that taketh thy entire city.

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And therefore the cuserie continues, this person is fit to rule.

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Because if he were the prince of a country, he would be as just as he is to his body and his soul.

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He subdues his passions, keeping his passions in bonds, keeping his temptations at bay.

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He abstains from excessiveness.

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He makes sure that he isn't missing even the slightest bit.

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Every one of his senses is taken care of.

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It is this person who has total ownership over his body and subdues his desire for power.

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But allows just enough.

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Just enough to remain healthy for each one of his senses to get.

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What it needs?

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This person.

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This Hasan?

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That's what a Moshel is.

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And a Moshel is the one who when he rules over his body.

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He's fit to rule over a city.

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They're related.

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They're connected.

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It's not a coincidence.

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It's not a coincidence that Yehuda was selected.

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Being a Moshe being, someone who is in total control is the one who makes a perfect king.

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Because he knows how to give every one of the members of society exactly what they need.

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He knows how to make a healthy and happy society.

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He's the one who knows how to eat grilled chicken, breadcrumbs, carrots, and lettuce, and a chocolate chip, fiber muffin for dessert, which is all healthy, enjoyable food, but it isn't deep fried lobster crab cakes.

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It isn't some overindulgent, disgusting item.

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It isn't a monsoon of deli pastrami wrapped around a hamburger that's then deep fried in oil.

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He knows how to control himself.

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That's a person who's going to know how to control an army, control a government, control people, give people what they need, and then also get order when it's time for order.

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That's how you get people to pay taxes because you also know how to give back to the people.

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So they love to pay taxes because you take care of the roads for me.

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Because when there's COVID, you give me a check because I don't have money because businesses are closed.

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Taxes, I'm fine with that because I trust my king.

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He knows how to give and it also knows how to have honest restraint.

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That's what the kuzari says, is a moshel and a chassid.

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You know, the Vilnagon was a big lover of the Kuzeri.

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The Vilnagon's Talmidim.

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They said that he called the Rebbe.

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The Vilnagon called the safer Hakuzari a safer qadosh.

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The Vilnagon is also noted to have said that one should learn the Kuzeri in his youth to build his primary faith.

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His primary safer for Amuna should be the Kuzeri, because it's not about philosophy, but it's about this idea of national revelation, of that cold, hard facts and experiencing Maimanar Sini, and it's a tradition passed down.

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That's all what we believe.

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The Vilna Gon says all of this.

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And listen to what the Vilna Gone says that goes so beautifully in tandem with this Kuzeri Rabirucham brings it here in the same piece.

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Listen to what the Vilna Gone says.

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Perik Khav Zion and Mishle.

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Omar Shomki Gedher Moshel.

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Who usher Moshel Mayatsmo?

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It's not our attention right now should not be turned to the actual pasa.

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We're jumping right to the Vilna Gon's commentary on this Pusak in chapter 27 of Mishle.

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Omar Shomki Gedher Moshel.

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What is a Moshel?

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Who usher Moshel Meyat'ma?

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Someone who has total control.

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Total rulership.

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And he rules on his own accord.

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Not based on what other people choose.

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Oh, listen here, folks.

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Oh, don't you love it when a plan comes together?

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Yehuda, Haya Mitsiah Shell Moshel.

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The Guru brings in Yehuda here.

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Yehuda was the one who was from the Mitssias, the reality of a Moshel.

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Umoshel Gam al-Achiv, and he also ruled over his brothers.

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Gam al Atsmo, he also ruled over himself.

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And he cites Rashi, Bahodasoki Sadka Mimeni.

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It's interesting that he only notes the second part of Rashi.

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That he admits to Tamar.

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The Vilna Gone kind of skips how Rashi says that he also admitted to speaking out against the brothers to save Yose.

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But don't you see here how the Vilnagon is wrapping up everything?

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We see from the beginning, we see how Yaakov crowned Yehuda, and we know this Rashi, that the way we learn it is because of his rulership on himself.

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That's why he became the ruler.

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And we have this Kuzuri who tells us that Achassid is somebody who's a Moshel Ba'atzmo.

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And that's his answer to the Khazar when he says that I asked you for the story of Achassid's day, not the story of a Moshel's day.

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It's the same thing.

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And that's what the Vilna Gone is saying here.

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Yeah does in charge, because Yehu doesn't charge.

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And the girl finishes, finishes.

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The great proselyte, the one who translated the Torah, the nephew of Titus, you should know.

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He translates the Torah on our Posak, yes, our Posak where we began.

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When Yaakov says about Yehuda, that Yehuda At Yadukha Achecha, your brothers will know you.

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You're gonna be in charge.

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You know what Uncle says?

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Because Yehuda At Odisha, the low behe sassa, bach yodun.

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Yehuda, your brothers will praise you.

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Why will they praise you?

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At Odisha, what does it mean that they will know you?

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It means they will praise you.

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Why?

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Because you admitted, you confessed, and you weren't ashamed.

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That's the Mida of Malchas.

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That you know, no matter what people will say, you have to admit you have the freedom of will and the freedom of speech to do what needs to be done no matter what others will say.

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Total control is Yehuda's Midah, and total control and dominion over physical pleasures and indulgences and the ability to stand up and do what is right when others have chosen to do else, to do other, to do something different, something that's wrong, even if everyone is doing it.

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The Mida of Yehuda, to choose to do the right thing and to rule over yourself and to think as a free thinker and to do what is right.

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That is who is primely situated and ready to be the next great Jewish leader and king.

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We have so much excess in 2025.

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The musr for us is not far off.

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When we're honest with ourselves, who can honestly say that they only take what they need to satisfy their cravings?

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Doesn't mean you have to have minimal amounts of food.

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You can go and enjoy and do what you need to do to be a happy, normal, healthy Jew.

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You should do that.

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But you must never let yourself totally go.

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You must never lose control over yourself.

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You must be able to choose to do what is right when everyone says, nah.

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Times have changed.

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You can literally do whatever you want in this generation in but 10 minutes, five minutes, one day when you can get anywhere and do anything, we must master this self-mastery course that we're learning about here.

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Our very spiritual lives depend upon it.

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When everyone says the shot in a Gemara is one way, you could easily nod your head and agree with everyone.

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But if you know that there's just something that's not fitting right, do you have the freedom of will to say, no, no, no, wait a second, friends?

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My betza, I'm not sure this is right.

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Or do you just go with the crowd?

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When everyone decides, I hated this, when they made up this yeshiva week that all of a sudden vacation became yeshiva week.

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They just added a long winter break and called it yeshiva week.

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So yeshivas have to close in some areas?

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Do you have the freedom of speech to say, what?

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What?

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I thought we have a yeshiva schedule.

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And yes, sometimes we need to take vacations and have off-shoppics, but where did this entire week to go on some cruise in the middle of the Zman come from?

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Do you have the freedom of speech?

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And do you have the thou brother shall know you and the self-righteousness and self-mastery to speak out and say, wait a second, it's the middle of the winter's man here.

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This is time to go back to work.

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It's time to grind season.

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Do you have the self-confidence and the self-mastery that when everyone says to throw Yosef into the pit, do you have the confidence to say no, we shouldn't do that?

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If one million Jews say, of course we go away for a paysach, do you have the honesty inside of your heart to say, well, that's great?

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But I don't actually like going away for a paysach, and I kind of want to be home around the seder table with my family.

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And I don't want a waiter to bring the Karpas.

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I want my my friends, my family to be there.

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Do you have the leadership aspect in your belly?

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Do you have the discipline to be able to think for yourself and choose what's right?

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That's the attribute we learn.

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That's the personification of Malchus.

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Of what Yehuda had.

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You can only imagine how embarrassing it was when Yehuda had to admit his fault.

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And when Yehuda spoke out against 11 other brothers that said the opposite Psak.

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This is what it takes, friends.

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We have to rule ourselves.

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In 2025, this isn't just a nice leadership qualification, but it very much the ability to rule yourself, rule your senses, rule your impulses, be able to find inner peace, to be able to say no to things, to be able to let urges pass, and to be able to say no, we need this attribute.

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To be healthy, happy Jews, to have boundaries.

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Take the lesson that Yaakov taught us, that the Kuzeri built upon and elaborated upon and explained.

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That the Vilna Gon literally He wove all of it together for us.

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I beg of you that we all take a moment to ask ourselves, where have we let ourselves go?

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What are others doing that I'm just following?

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Even though I really don't need to follow them because I don't believe in it?

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Where can we learn?

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To really grab our freedom of choice back.

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Where can we when where in our lives can we become free thinkers again?

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This is what leadership's about.

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This is what being a ruler is about.

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And this is very much required actions and required a required mindset that we need to be healthy, happy Jews in 2025.